Dealing with an immature girlfriend is not easy. No matter how sweet it may sound to you right now; you know having a girlfriend who’s going to be innocent, remind you of your school sweethearts, and be free from complications that are inherent in more mature women?
It is way too difficult to actually be in a mature relationship with an immature woman like that.
She might be okay to laugh with and to go on fun rides with but that’s about it. She can’t be the support you look for when you go back home after a tough day at work.
SHE THROWS TANTRUMS LIKE A BABY (ALL THE TIME)
If your girlfriend throws temper tantrums at you just like a child, nagging, screaming, pouting for things to be her way then she isn’t as mature as you’d need her to be.
HER DOMESTIC ABILITIES ROUND UP TO 0
If she doesn’t even know how to cook instant noodles, depends on her mother to buy her clothes, and do her laundry then how is she going to sustain herself if she starts living on her own? If your girlfriend isn’t a self made woman then she cannot be a dependable girlfriend!
SELF HYGIENE ISN’T A CONCERN TO HER
If your girlfriend isn’t worried about maintaining self hygiene which involves taking a shower every day, combing one’s hair, tidying oneself up and paying heed to the way they dress then they haven’t grown old enough to have realised and developed a personality of their own.
You can’t depend on a woman to be your companion when she hasn’t even realised her own identity.
SHE CRAVES ATTENTION
It’s only an immature woman who will go to any extent to grab some attention. To grab attention your girlfriend might even end up putting you in an embarrassing position.
SHE IS IMPRESSED WITH SUPERFICIAL QUALITIES
Superficial qualities like physical appearance over personality attributes and status over culture and polish is more important to a woman who is immature for her age.
SHE GETS JEALOUS OF YOU AND OTHER PEOPLE AROUND HER EASILY
A woman who is immature for her age will try and plant seeds of jealousy in you only to receive validation herself. This she does by flirting with and speaking well of other men around you only because she is insecure of the woman you know who she feels are more confident than she is as an individual.
She fails to realise that confidence is innate and is a result of self assurance which shows itself on the outside.
SHE HAS A PROBLEM WITH YOU SOCIALISING
She doesn’t have a life outside of the relationship; she requires no friend or family time and in fact not even time exclusively to herself. This is a sign that your girlfriend hasn’t matured enough to look beyond a love relationship, paying attention to other matters in her life which are worthy of her attention.
You can’t have a satisfactory relationship with a woman who doesn’t know how to share you with others because her world revolves solely around you.
SOCIAL MEDIA IS HER GO TO PLATFORM FOR EVERYTHING
Sharing enjoyable moments from life on social media is something that everyone does nowadays; perhaps they like to keep family members and friends updated and sometimes to trigger jealousy in people they aren’t quite fond of.
But if sharing means posting pictures of you both together of every moment you share with one another, not even missing out on one event or picture that you’ve been a part of then it’s plain childish and immature. Nobody leaves ajar their private lives for others to take view.
While sharing of a few special moments is one thing, publicising every waking hour of the relationship is another.
She fails to value your time and effort and instead takes for granted everything you do for her. She expects you to wait on her, to come around whenever she is ready and wants to be with you disregarding your work schedule because she isn’t mature enough to realise what it is like to be busy and how to value relationships.
She is too concerned with the self, given her immaturity and need for constant validation.
SHE DELVES ON UNREASONABLE DEMANDS
Whether what she demands is materialistic or immaterial and involves more of the emotions but is irrational then you’re stuck with an immature girlfriend who doesn’t understand the ways of the world and hence knows know better in demanding unreasonably from her lover.
SHE ALWAYS NEEDS TO KNOW ABOUT YOUR WHEREABOUTS
She wants to know about your whereabouts all the time. It’s not because she is curious about your life but because she is insecure as a girlfriend and she feels jealous whenever you spend too much time without her, either enjoying with your buddies or working at office.
An immature woman doesn’t leave you be. She is like a faux mother to whom you have to report about everything, failing to do which you shall have to face the music.
SHE’S ISN’T EASY TO CONVERSE WITH
Conversations are never easy with her. You will inevitably have her complicate everything, having misunderstood you and having assumed unnecessary things that always give rise to further conflict.
She can’t communicate her needs out to you because deep within, she realises that her needs are unreasonable and irrational. So she will fight to get her way.
SHE CAN’T MAKE HER OWN DECISIONS
A mature woman is capable of taking decisions for herself whether significant or insignificant.
On the other hand, an immature woman will always depend on the man to look after her needs, to make her decisions and choices for her. This can be a huge responsibility for you in the relationship when you have to, not only help your girlfriend choose the phone you buy, but develop her resume, drop and pick her up from the interview, decide on which friend is right for he and which isn’t and other such stuff.
SHE’S KEEPS REFERRING TO HER EX
An immature woman will bring up her past only to make you feel jealous. She will constantly talk about her ex and tell you how differently he did things for her.
She can’t value what she has at present because what she really is looking for is not a valuable bond but self validation.
YOU’RE NOT ALLOWED TO HAVE GIRLFRIENDS
Your immature girlfriend will not be able to bear the fact of your mingling with other women. Be those women your female friends or colleagues from work.
She isn’t trusting of you and will doubt you with all the women in your life. This is proof of her own insecurity that she very well needs to overcome first in order to be in a fulfilling mature relationship.
SHE TAKES PROBLEMS TO A WHOLE NEW LEVEL
Whenever fights take place, she is unwilling to hear you out and bursts out into tears when nothing else works in her favour. She takes things too far so that you always find yourself to be the one who surrenders because you don’t want any further arguments.
If this is the kind of girlfriend you’re dealing with, I’d suggest you to hand her over to her mamma and get your things back together in place before you go looking for an adult woman to be in a relationship with the next time.