How to Apologize to a Girl you Hurt through Text?

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Whether intentionally or not, you hurt her and you’re afraid she won’t forgive you or talk to you anymore. You need to ask for forgiveness and this can be quite tricky since an inappropriate word could worsen the situation and ruin your reconciliation. How to apologize to a girl you hurt and you like over text or on WhatsApp? What should you say and what should you definitely avoid? We’ll give you some advice, good ways to apologize and a lot of examples of apology messages for her that will help you get her back.

What to say to apologize to a girl to get her back?

Understand why she felt hurt before writing your message. Figure out why she is really offended. Is it your actions that hurt her or your words? Is the reason deeper than what you think? Try to put yourself in her shoes and see how would you have felt if that had happened to you. It will help you to understand her feelings, her point of view and why she reacted that way. If she feels you understood her, she will be more inclined to listen to you and maybe forgive you.

If you can’t figure that out, try to get in touch with her best friend and bring the reason out. She will definitely share it with her friends if she is hurt. When you know the reason, you are ready to write your apology.

So just understand and accept your fault clearly stating each and every point where you went wrong. Never defend yourself while framing an apology. This will do nothing more than offending her again and she may very well not forgive you. Even if you feel it’s not your fault, just accept the fault. This is the most intelligent reaction since you will more probably get her back that way.

Do not try to make her feel she is wrong, she is overreacting or she wasn’t being insulted. If she feels hurt, just accept it and try to make her feel you are sorry.


What’s the best way to apologize to a girl over text?

Try to be as much real as possible. Avoid the cookie cutters. Not every girl is fond of cheesy lines. Some crave for genuineness in your words. Make sure whatever you say comes from your heart. For example, start your text message like that:

“I know I was wrong and I hurt you…

Just understand her and think of what you would have wanted to hear if you were in her place.

Here is a list of some best apology messages to your loved one you can use in different situations.

Sweet sorry messages for your girlfriend after you hurt her

  • Hey love, I am sorry I hurt you. I never meant to do so in any way. I know I was wrong. I hope you will forgive me. Without you, life has lost its meaning.
  • I know you are really hurt right now. Take your time. I will wait for your answer. I love you.
  • I am sorry love. It is just that I am insecure about the fact that I will lose you forever. Please forgive me.
  • I admit I was wrong. And I promise that I will never repeat it again. You are more important to me than anything. Please forgive me and give me a last chance.
  • I miss you every moment. I am incomplete without you. I am sorry, I love you.

Romantic apology text messages for her

  • When I hurt you I hurt myself too. Please forgive me.
  • Hurting you is a heartache. You know that I love you so much and I can never even think of hurting you even in my dreams. Please forgive me. I love you.
  • It is indeed true that you only realise the value of something when you lose it. I cannot afford to lose you love. Without you, I am just imperfect. I am sorry. Please come back love, I need you.
  • I took for granted, all our smiles, laughs and memories. I promise I’ll never do it again, because they mean the world to me. I am sorry.
  • I am not saying sorry just because I understand the difference between right and wrong. I am saying sorry also because our relationship is more important to me than my ego. I love you.

The Best apology message ever for her

  • I feel like an idiot to take that sweet smile away from such a beautiful face. Please don’t waste your precious tears on my silly mistake. It is not worth it. I am sorry. Please forgive me.
  •  I know you’re angry but I want you to think about all the beautiful memories, that have made us believe that we’re meant to be. I am not perfect but I’m still me. The same guy who holds you in his arms because you’re all that matter to him. I’m sorry.
  • Ever since the day I broke your heart and have lost your trust, I have lost myself. If I had a time machine, you wouldn’t be reading this message right now because I would have gone back in time and undone the hurt I caused you. I couldn’t even think of hurting you in my dreams. I regret my actions badly and I am very sorry. I love you. Please come back.

Sorry messages that will make her cry

  • An apology is nothing, compared to what I’ve done, but still, I know that you have a forgiving and understanding heart and you won’t let resentment destroy our love.
  • I know I made a mistake, I know my actions can never be undone, I know I am not perfect for you, I know you suffered through the pain you did not deserve, I know I was wrong. But out of all the things, one thing that will never change is the meaning you add to my life and my love for you. I am sorry, please forgive me. I cannot imagine a line without you. I love you.
  • I’m sorry for all the hurt I’ve caused you and I regret the things I’ve done. I’ve lost the 1 girl I’ve ever loved and it was cause of the things I’ve done. I know sorry’s not enough because I’m such a screw up.. But for whatever its worth I wanted to say, that you cross my mind every single day…
  • You meant the world to me and I was so foolish to destroy my own world. I am sorry. I will not say all the heavy lines but will only say one thing that is completely true, I need you love. I cannot live without you. I know I might be the most idiotic person you have ever met, and yes I am really very dumb to hurt a person like you. But I never meant to do that. I am sorry, please come back. I love you.

These were some examples that you can use to apologize to your girlfriend.

When is the best time to apologize to a girl?

If she does not accept your apology at the very moment, just give her some time to think about it and let her see that you are genuinely sorry. Things do take time but ultimately heal.


How long to wait before writing again?

Give her at least three days before writing your second apology. If by the third day you do not receive your response, write your second apology.

How to apologize to a girl when you don’t know what you did?

You may feel that you did not hurt her intentionally and may feel entitled to an apology as well. But this is not the right time. Do not enter a second dispute and take the risk to lose her forever. Take the responsibility of everything even when you know you did nothing wrong.

You need to listen to her responses to understand her feelings. Only if she feels you are attentive during the conversation and are guilty, she will think of forgiving you.

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A fun loving person who wishes to travel around the world to explore new places. Aaina is a feminist to the core and a supporter of rational thinking. Her inquisitive attitude and willingness to bring out views made her step into writing and she started blogging a year ago. She is in deep love with nature and animals and treasures deep conversations.


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