Getting a woman sexually aroused in a matter of a few seconds seems to you difficult or even impossible? Do you think you need superpowers to accomplish that? Actually, there are extremely easy and powerful ways of turning a woman on very quickly. But most men simply do not know how women react and what they like… We are going to reveal to you a few tips and tricks to stimulate her almost instantly.
Women’s minds vs men’s mind and why both react differently to arousal
Women are more easily distracted by events happening in their lives. So, focusing on sexual stimulation can sometimes get hard. It might need far greater energy and time to be successful in building up and reaching the bliss point of release. The slightest change in thoughts can lead them into starting all over again which can become a major source of irritation. Hence, it takes time and patience and no wonder, you need to hone those skills to arouse a woman instantly!
This is in sharp contrast to men who are capable of ejaculating in pretty much any circumstance or thought that occupies their mental space. This is often referred to as “ the point of ejaculatory inevitability”. Enough explanation to why men find sex instantly relaxing.
Then what is the quickest way to arouse a woman? Women are different and do not react the same way so you should not try to copy what would work for you. But first things first:
What to say to a woman to arouse her sexually instantly:
A word of Caution here! Be careful with your words. If you want to know the best dirty questions to ask a woman before you meet her or just have the right script that you should tell her when you meet in person, you have got to prepare a little. This is to make sure that you don’t come across as a creep. You will have to bear in mind that you don’t sound offensive or say things that are completely out of context. The woman should be equally interested in you before you even think of talking dirty. This advice will save you so much embarrassment that you’ll thank us later.
So, set the context right. To be on the safer side, you need to have a guideline ready which is exactly what we plan to take you through in this article. You can be a champ at this already or someone who is quite hesitant at attempting such bold moves in the first place. Either of these, you’ll learn through the below-suggested tips with time and the right efforts. So, have patience rather than spoiling things in haste.
Compliment her: Women feel good when a man can show that he desires her the most. They feel a sense of safety in a man who can build her confidence. No matter how easy a day has been or how used to the compliments she is, a repetition too never hurts!
To make things easier for you, here are the top five sentences I would advise you to tell her:
- “You look stunning as always”. (Make her feel important)
- “I can’t take my eyes off you”. (She should have all your attention amidst a thousand other women around you)
- “I can’t help but show you off to the world today and every other day”. (Treat her like a trophy every day)
- “Your eyes have a fan in me”. (Tell her how much you notice the littlest details)
- “I can’t wait to grab that ass when we get back home”. (You can get dirtier depending on the part of her body you absolutely love!)
- “Makeup or no makeup, you turn me on in seconds”. (Admire her skills but also treat her equally right when she wants to just be herself)
Dirty Talking: This is immensely pleasurable if you want to take things slow but still want to drive home the right message of how attracted you are to the woman.
Women dig it instantly when a man knows what he is speaking about and maintains that dignity and respect at the same time. So, those of you who want to know the easy ways to stimulate a woman or get her thinking of sex here’s what you need to tell her:
- What do you fancy wearing to bed tonight or do you sleep nude?
- Did you ever touch a guy in public because you were horny?
- Which part of a man’s body do you admire the most?
- Which is the most sensitive spot in your body that you like being touched often during foreplay?
- Have you ever received an intimate massage?
- What gives you great orgasms: Oral sex or penetration?
- Do you prefer body hair to a clean shave?
- Would you like it if I kiss you right now?
- Do you enjoy BDSM?
- What’s your favourite sex experience been like?
Where to touch a woman to stimulate her sexually instantly?
It is a constant source of pain to most women that their partners don’t really know the right places to touch and stimulate their sensory organs. It is frustrating and disappointing at the same time when guys go back to the same methods despite repeated reminders of what works and what doesn’t.
A recent study which was published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine revealed what the best places to arouse a woman are. It was conducted on 30 women aged between 18 to 35. Researchers used “light touch, pressure, and vibration, and studied each woman’s clitoris, labia minora, vaginal and anal margins, the lateral breast, areola, and nipple.”
The findings of the study were: “When it came to light touch, the neck, forearm, and vaginal margin were ranked the most sensitive area, and the areola was reported the least sensitive. The female genitals, it was found to be more sensitive to pressure and vibration when compared to light touch.
Surely, this gives enough pointers at what is to be done if your woman fancies physical arousal!
What are the perfect smells and fragrances that arouse a woman quickly?
To get a woman in the mood, you have to make sure the ambience is just set to perfection. When you smell nice, your lady will not be able to keep her hands off you. Don’t blame us if she hooks on to your like a leech those days when you smell nice. 😉
All your sensory organs need to feel the setup to be aroused instantly to the occasion. If it really reflects her persona on a certain day, then you are in for a sexy ride that night! Rest assured, she will take charge or if you like taking the charge, she will still give you an amazing subject to dominate over. Here are the top three smells that most women get instantly turned on by:
Musk: This aroma is perhaps the most sought after in male perfumes/deodorants. Actually, this scent resembles that of male pheromones which a female gets instantly hooked on to. Hence, investing in a quality perfume should be on your list.
Peppermint: A very good addition to your shower gel, this scent instantly sets a refreshing mood and uplifts your energy. The clean feel post the shower will immediately nudge your partner to have sex without turning her off about bad body odour on a stressful day.
Vanilla: A very warm scent that instantly makes you feel cosy on a cold/rainy day. Make sure your room smells of vanilla when you want to raise the heat quotient. Vanilla scented room sprays or candles are easily available in the market.
While these may give you quick solutions, understand that sex should never be forced. You have to roll with the flow. Take time, show the right gestures, read her mood, see how much she is opening up to and then decide to take the next step forward. Do let us know in the comments below which of these tricks worked for you!