Most of you reading this must have hit the gym or played some kind of sport in your life. What’s the first thing you do before starting the activity? You warm up. All coaches tell you how important the warming up phase before exercising is. Let me tell you it’s the same with sex, but here it’s called foreplay. Many people regardless of the gender feel that the foreplay is not important. Let me correct you here, foreplay is as important to sex as warm up is to exercising. You can underperform if you don’t do it.
To convince you: here are some reasons why foreplay is so crucial!
When done right, it can be more pleasurable than sex
No matter who you are the main act can never be extended for hours. So you’ll be done quite fast and than? But your can extend the foreplay as long as you want. When done right, it can provide more pleasure than sex which gets you in the good books with your lady. The more time you take for her the bigger the reward can be.
Foreplay stimulates which means better sex
Think about every single epic movie you have seen. What if I remove all the buildup and anticipation and just tell you the climax? It won’t be that epic anymore. The same goes for sex, you can’t expect an amazing climax without working for it. A good foreplay stimulates the body for a pleasurable climax. So next time you want to get more pleasure don’t slack on the foreplay. Try to stimulate her by stroking her and exploring her body to the fullest.
Know each other’s likes and dislikes
Not everyone knows everything about sex and also we don’t know the preferences of our partner from the start. So if you directly proceed to sex it may mean that you are never sleeping with that person again. You need to understand their likes to please them and the best way to do that is during foreplay. This not only makes them happy but also lets you know exactly what to do when you are having se.
If it’s your partner or a one night stand intimacy always helps to heighten the experience in bed. There is something very exciting about exploring your partner’s body before having sex. Foreplay helps to increase the intimacy and hence helps you to pleasure he in bed. Listen to what your partner likes either through what they are saying or through the sounds they make.
Show your strengths
The question about size is always floating around but if your foreplay game is strong the size would never be a matter. You won’t be able to impress them during sex because you won’t get to show what you are good at. So use your foreplay to show them what you know and how good you can be. This will make them want you even more.
Foreplay helps her to reach orgasm
Generally, women can last longer in bed than men and hence we tend to run out of juice. If you are someone who skips the foreplay and proceeds with sex then there are high chances only you are getting an orgasm from all of this. And that means that you are not looking after your partner’s needs. That makes you a selfish lover and nobody likes that. So if you want to get her an orgasm work on your foreplay.
These are some of the reasons foreplay is a must. If we missed something please add it in the comments.